I was sick…

Yes. I was sick… for 2 days.

When I woke up on the Friday’s morning, the first thing I did was neither to brush my teeth nor comb my hair. The first thing I did was to rush to the washroom, due to the excruciating pain originated from my tummy. After visited the toilet for a few rounds (trust me, you will never gonna like to experience this… not even once in your whole life), I thought I was fine again. However, I was wrong. Hence, I went to the clinic (without making an appointment, thank god!). I was told by the doctor that my problem was due to indigestion. Omg, I think I really need to eat more vegetables and fruits d. Fortunately, after taking the medicine for 3 rounds, I felt much much better d.

The next morning when I woke up, I went to brush my teeth but still… I din comb my hair. Please dun get me wrong, it is not because that I am an untidy and lazy guy. I really dun need to comb my hair when I wake up because my hair will look ‘ok’ even some1 messes up my hair while I slp. =P When I wanted to start having my bfast, I realized that my cheek was hot (I mean the temperature)! And the 1st thing which appeared in my mind was: I had a fever. Thus, another day of 20-hr slping day!

Honest speaking, falling sick is not an enjoyable experience. However, it will be a good indicator to show that we need to pause briefly in our hectic life and have a good rest. So, between ‘REST TO PREVENT FROM FALLING SICK’ or ‘REST TO ASSIST RECOVERING FROM SICK’, which one would you choose? Well, I choose the 1st one, that’s why I LOVE TO SLEEP, whether I am busy or free. =P

Zzzzzzzz…..

My Horoscope

CAPRICORN MAN

A man in this Zodiac has a pair of round big beautiful eyes, a nice structure jaw line. He is a good listener and can understand everything easily and clearly. He can guess what you will say before you even say it. He often shakes his head or touch his hair. He is a big built, but he will tend to have a small ear. He tends to have a darker shade of hair and eyes' color. He will likely have a short and strong neck, broad shoulder, muscular, strong hands and grips. He has a shorter fingers compare to the man of the same size and same height in the other zodiac. His hands can work well at the same time can protect and care for his woman. His height will be proportional to his weight. He will walk firmly and always take a big long step. As he walks he will look around in caution with no disturbance from his problems at present or in the past. He likes to watch things built with fascinate and wonder about how it is done, so you could see him watching a construction site and not get bored. He is a good dancer. He is a careful person in instinct, so even at dance floor, he will already have to know what in front or behind him before he will take any steps. Green is his favorite color. You will mostly see him wear green, navy, blue, or brown. In all 12 Zodiacs, he is the one who can get the most satisfaction from possession of beautiful thing, and cherish it as if it is very valuable to him even it is just a crystal ball made in France. It is his luck that he hardly has to chase after woman. They always come themselves without his invitation. He likes to treat his guest in his house than visiting his guest at their house. He does not like to be a center of attention, so if you need his help, you have to look up for him. He lives his life in stability and simplicity. Every decision made are already "Sure" and carefully thought out. He will not do what he has been asked to do if he is not interested in doing it. He acts casually but in reality, he always doing things seriously. He loves peaceful and quiet environment so in his free time, he will stay at home instead of going out and look for adventure. He loves nature and dreams of a nice and quiet house with lots of trees, or he may dream of a house in a beautiful countryside. He will let you have freedoms and watching you in a distance. If you are over doing something, he will let you know by his icy cold look. He is the perfect lover in all the Zodiac for nothing he will not do for his love one. He won't allow people to laugh at him or think he is a joker, so he will spent for himself luxury for what it is worth. He likes neat and well dressed woman, so do not be a slop if you are dating this guy. If you do that he will loose his face. He is the romantic type who would dance with you under the moon light. Love will make him shines and you will see it in his face. He will not say it out loud, you have to know it yourself.

An one-day-trip to Singapore

In the early morning of 17 August, I picked up a backpack which I din use for a long period, carried it and walked on the path (which I long time never take already) which is leading to the small bus stop in my taman. Since the day my dad bought the kancil for me, I very seldom became a bus passenger in JB, until this morning. It was because I am going to s’pore and both my dad and younger bro were not at home so I have no choice but to go to the customs on my own. Approximately 40 minutes later, I arrived at the JB customs. I used to take public buses to sch on a daily basis when I was in Form 4. I hated waiting for buses when I was rushing to the sch last time. I am a person who treats punctuality very seriously, therefore, I hate to be late. Anyway, 2day’s bus trip is indeed a reminiscence of my sec school’s life. What a great start of a lovely day!

However, 2 of my frens were late and made me and another fren waited for nearly 1 hr. Omg, it has been a while since I waited a person for so long. Anyway, the trip would b meaningless if we cant go as a group so I try to suppress all my ‘ketidakpuasan’and tried to call them to reach here asap. While we waiting for them, I met a ‘long-lost friend’at the customs building. I have never seen this friend for more than a year. She used to be a very good working partner to me when we both were student reporters. She was on her way to her hostel in Singapore. Since she would be free till the evening, she volunteered to be our tour guide! Shortly after this, the other 2 frens had finally arrived. So, 5 of us moved towards the customs checkpoints happily together. And of course, the trip from the customs to the mrt station was full with our ‘cold jokes’ and non-stop rubbish talk. Haha…

We went to the city centre of Singapore and visited the theater – the Esplanade - which is famous of its unique ‘durian-shaped’ structure. “The durians are best served chilled” appeared on one of the promoting banner and I find it very funny yet meaningful!

After that, we were quite unsure about where to go and finally we decided to go to the Jurong Birdpark. This tourist hotspot is very near to my bro’s uni yet I din pay him a visit. Hehe… paiseh lor coz I really din have sufficient time to include this in my itinerary. =P
The park is really huge and it is a very difficult task to walk to every corner of the park. However, we did cover all the parts of it, thanks to the clever invention of monorail. Hehe… being lazy is not good but sometimes laziness will help us to create a useful invention. =P

Although we had the opportunities to observe the birds closely, it is quite disheartening to see them being caged in a small area. If possible, I really hope that the authority can set them free, or at least provide them a bigger living area. And yet I paid them to continue caging the poor birds. Aih…

Then, we traveled to Bugis and had our dinner in McD. It was a good dinner session with continuous crappy talk and ‘unstoppable’laughters. Hahaha… I think we are really “godlike” cold jokers! (BG Lee, u will miss me when I mentioned these ‘keywords’… haha…)

I reached home at approximately 930pm. It was such a WONDERFUL trip and I shall never forget this meaningful day!

Special thanks to:

Miss tour guide a.k.a Meng Hwey;
Mr Ah Fook a.k.a. Wei Xiang;
Ms Diana;
And Miss Sujen.

Lastly, thanks for having so much patience to read my longest entry since I started this blog! Xie Xie!

The Summer Live Concert

Fui yo~I went to the Summer Live Concert organised by the 8tv which was held in the famous Danga Bay in JB last nite. It was a super hot nite due to the hot weather, hot singers and the extremely hot atmosphere (according to the MC, there were about 100K ppl attended this super hot event... and according to one of my frens, the total population in JB is 1 million...so there were one tenth of the total JB population present on that event)!

For those who had attended any concerts b4, u shud know the difference betw watching it from the tv and watching it in the venue itself. If u haven been to a concert yet, perhaps u shud come n experience it next yr in danga bay (hopefully 8tv will still organise such a cool concert in the future).

Summer Live Concert... It was so hot and amazingly good! Fui yo~~

:)

While I was browsing through the societies’ group photos in the secondary school magazines, I received a call from my bf (don’t worry, I am not a gay. The ‘bf’ here stands for best friend.) He was inviting me to visit him in his uni when his term starts in September. That was all. The call didn’t exceed 1 minute. However, this less-than-a-minute call has given me a brief happy moment. He used to be my best partner in school and had taught me many lessons which had influenced me positively. “A person should not boast about his capabilities. Otherwise, he will not be respected and be recognized as a capable individual.” This was a sentence that he told me before. Consequently, it gave me a positive influence in my life. Until now, I still always use this sentence to remind myself to be a humble person.

Steamboat dinner

Steamboat (in chinese, huo guo); dinner (wan can)

I just came back from a steamboat dinner which i had together with 3 other sec sch mates. It was quite a good dinner coz we all had a good chatting n laughing session + a tableful of nice dishes. Too bad i forgot to take the picture of this event, otherwise i cud hav showed the 'evidence' to you all. =P

My stomach is so full now... and my brain too! When this two reason combines, the result is fairly obvious: a sleepless night for Wei Kang.

Good Night (wan an)!

Disclaimer

All the articles in my blog do not carry the objective to condemn any particular individuals. They are written based on my own opinions, feelings and judgement. I apologise if any of my previous entries have caused you any unnecessary troubles.

Happy or Sad?

If you are asked to choose to be either a happy or sad person, what will be your answer? Happy? Sad? Or Uncertain?

Hopefully, the answer will be ‘Be a happy person’, as I always believe that a happy person is the one who always think positively. If you choose to b sad or uncertain, don’t worry, start to think positive from this moment onwards.

So the question now will be: How to be happy?

The concept is quite simple. Here’s an example: in a test, what is the probability of scoring 100% exactly and that of scoring 50% and above? The answers are 0.01 and 0.50.

Now you will ask me: what is the connection between this example and the concept? Well, it is like this: it depends how you define the feeling ‘happy’.

For a smart student, s/he might feel that his/her hardwork and intelligence will only be justified only if s/he scores well in exams. Therefore, s/he works very hard to ensure that s/he can score 80% and above in every exam. However, not all the time she can achieve that because some of the exams are really difficult. So the person starts to keep blaming himself/herself for not working hard enough and thus studying 24/7 (of coz, this is impossible…hehe… It is just an example so don’t take it too seriously =P). In the end, she still fail to achieve what she wants as she cant concentrate in her exams due to poor health.

If you always think that being happy is sth which is unreacheable, you will never be a happy person. Happy is not sth which is very complicated. You don’t really need to work hard 24/7 just to be a happy person. Being happy is very simple. You just have to learn how to be grateful of what you already have.

Think about those who don’t have enough money to buy food to eat.

Think about those patients suffering terminal illness who have only limited days to live.

Think about those who have lost their home due to war.

Think about those who are too poor to study.

And the list can still go on…

While reading this, you are still breathing and living healthily. You might not be rich, but certainly you have enough money to sustain your life and also have the privilege to enjoy surfing the internet. You are not illiterate. You have a shelter to live in. etc etc…

Of course, we will face challenge in our lives. Even when you are so stressed that any additional problems will cause an immediate nervous breakdown to you, you must always remember that without going tru this period, you will never grow. Just stay calmly and think of ways to tackle the probs but not trying to find the methods of quitting it.

Happiness is not a luxury in our life. You will discover its presence in your life when you know how to appreciate your life.

中文 a.k.a Chinese Language a.k.a Bahasa Cina

When I first started blogging at approximately (I must admit that I really like this word because it is a more ‘polite way’ to give an uncertain answer which I cant remember exactly) a year ago, I was hesitating whether I should create a 100% angmoh (English in Hokkien) blog, a “seratus peratus blog Bahasa Cina” or perhaps a rojak-language blog which might consist of the 3 languages that I know, i.e. English, Bahasa Melayu and中文. At that time, due to the fact that I communicated in Mandarin (with my friends and family, and sometimes with the hawkers selling food in kopitiam ) and Malay Language (when I sang “Negaraku”, beli tiket bas, paying utilities bills, etc etc.) for about 90% of the time when I spoke, thus I decided to make English as my blog’s official language. That was not just to serve as a platform for me to practice the language but I also hope that my blog will be “flagged” as an international blog 1 day. =P And here we go, I started blogging about myself in “broken English”. Haha…

However, I soon felt that English has become my main communicating language since the day I first landed in United Kingdom to pursue a degree in Medicine. At about 99% of the time I spoke English over there (even though my Manglish would sometimes confused the local ppl there =P), and for the remaining of my time I would find myself skyping with family using my mother tongue. Without realizing it, I think I will soon be Anglicised.

Hence, I decided to include some Chinese articles in my blog in order to maintain my level of command of the language. However, this amendment has caused some unexpected distress to a big number of my blog readers. I truly regret about this and wish to apologise that I, however, will still write more Chinese articles in the future because at certain time I feel more comfortable to blog in my mother tongue about certain events in my life. Don’t worry if you cant understand Chinese Language because even if you do, you might not understand what I wrote, as most of them are quite abstract.

Hm… maybe I shall consider to conduct a mini Chinese Language class series here so that some of you may actually gain benefits from visiting my blog. =P

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我心情不好时，会变得很沉默。沉默到自己能很清楚地听见自己的心跳、听见自己的呼吸···

有些话，不管说的人有心还是无意，真的是伤人十足。

难道，心情不好就是伤人的license 吗？
难道，心情不好就要拒绝别人的关心吗？

话，说过了，或许能轻易忘掉；
心，伤过了，伤处该如何抚平？

我不敢奢望从此再也不受到伤害，只希望能在心的同一个地方受伤。这样，或许比较不会那么痛。

志翰说得对，我是个情绪化的人。

(P.S. 本人受过专业的受伤训练，请各位网友勿轻易模仿。我自己不开心就算了，真的不希望你们也和我一样。祝你们快乐！)

Determination

A goal in our life might b as tall as this building. However, with determination of a level which is higher than it, we can achieve the goal one day.

Kambate!

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i dunoe wat to write....i jz feel like 'conteng' sth here... bad mood...bad mood...bad mood...
wat can i do when i m :( ?
erm....
haha...

dunnoe ler....

Feel like screaming now...

AHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHH

相爱无梦

跟你抱着未等于爱上
不再抱着未等于不想
你我在这分钟
说过无缘再见
下秒钟再凑巧碰上

即使一起貌合却又神离
分隔两地日夜挂着愁眉
再各自结新欢
却暗地拿你去比较现有的
始终偏袒你

有心爱你却爱不到
抱紧了你却又未想终老
再等到与对方失散以后
就会知原来谁最好
爱不到至会更想爱
抱紧了你我又无心装载
我跟你也破不到
男与女之间爱情的定数

一个过活恨抱着情人
一对过活又挂念谁人
到了话要分开
你我尚有恻隐
又再探听对方新闻

phobia?

When you wanna do sth....just do it (but pls make sure you wun do any harm to other ppl). When you r worried too much, you cant do a single thing successfully.

IF you dun strike when the opportunity comes, you may miss it for the rest of ur life...

A random post

"A kind-hearted person has a greater tendency to b sad bcoz he/she is always worried about the ppl around him."

I think it is quite true, so what do you think?

happiness

We should never take our happiness for granted. Even if we are fated to possess a great amount of happiness in our life, without maintaining the happiness properly, we will soon find that no matter how much happiness we have, it will disappear eventually.

So, when your happiness arrives, you must hold on to it tightly and shall never miss this opportunity to keep it by your side forever. Do cherish the one that you love.

Good luck!